Heh heh, nothing wrong with me seeing the therapist alone first, of course.
I know it's moving kind of fast, it's so strange. We just put up the Christmas tree, the whole group all 3 of us. It feels nice, but sad at the same time.
To be honest, I'm not that much of a neat freak, it's more of her and I out of sync rather than me being obsessive about it. I do leave dishes in the sink, there's some in there right now from yesterday, and I don't have any compulsion to deal with it.
I'll slow down, more reading to do. It's just super confusing the mixed signals. Thanks for the input on the foot thing.