Wife left

[CO1978]

This morning I think I let her coldness get the better of me. When she came to the house before I left for work I just didn't have it in me to talk. I said a few things, she vented a little, but seeing as I wasn't going to contribute in asking her for any more details, she got up and said she was going to get some sleep before S woke up. I didn't give her a "have a nice day" like I had been, and as usual, didn't get one from her. It is very heard to see her like this, because just as WHG said about his wife, her kindness is a big reason why I married her. I can't say she is being rude, but she is being selfish and cold. Another thing I noticed, when S makes a mess, she makes sure to leave it for me to clean when I get home, and she leaves the bed a mess for me (which I make sure is made everytime). I try and not let it show it bothers me, and definatly wont say a word about it to her. I guess its true "hell hath no furry like a woman scorned" She is off tomorrow, so that means I wont see our S again until tuesday, this is always a dificult time for me, not seeing him. If this goes on like a marathon as everyone says, I'm really not sure I can hang in there watching my S leave me like that. I really would wish she would think of whats best for our S during all this, I know it is very hard for him to bounce back and forth (and not to mention he rather sleep in his own bed). I don't even want to think of it going to when he starts school next year, since we are living in different school districts.