1978... You're not alone. I think I can count on one hand the number of times my W has shown any concern towards me. Though, as I thought about your post I realized they were almost all related to 180s. After my first out of town GAL trip she asked me how it was and if I had fun. On my birthday she showed a little interest in my feelings. During one R talk she told me that this is all very painful for her too and she apologized for causing me all this pain. And I think when I had the stomach flu she showed a little bit of care about my condition.
So that's it... in two months, eight times. My W's ability to care about others has always been something I admire in her. Heck, she's a nurse after all... but apparently we LBH fall into a special category that is not worthy of even basic human concern at times.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD
