*hugs* ITM. You're going to feel better going dark. Seriously. It's hard, but you will get a very good sense of self and peace once you do.

Next time he asks if you're having a moment. Send him back a text with only these words: Are you?

If he sends anything back... send: Busy now, can't talk. TTYL. (and don't send anything back until the next time he texts).

And yes... the look of them after a while makes you want to ralph. Normal. You'll go through times where you'll want to cling to them like a small child and other times where you want to paste them in the face with a full sized shovel. smile

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.