Slow down AJ. She's still got OM in her hair. Take it very slow. Don't worry about the occasional touch though - the tickly foot thing for example. Touch makes bonds without the other person even being aware of it. Predators (OW, OM, etc use it to gain trust when they're seeking to "steal" your spouse from you.)
What's wrong with you going to the therapist yourself first? Maybe some extra insight why you need to be so tidy etc will help. Ever thought of leaving YOUR dishes in the sink?
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
