Thank you for taking the time to read, i could really use your help and.advice. unfortunately my friends and family all think i should forget about my H and so i have no support for my DBing. we separated after two years of marriage because my H didnt believe he was 'in love' with me any more. He had an EA with a work colleague, although that did not last very long. I moved out in JUly. I truly believe that he has struggled with the relationship moving on from the honeymoon period. Since I moved out we talk daily and see each other a few times a week. Three times now he has said he would like to give things ago,only to very quickly change his mind. Unfortunately each time I have reacted badly,begging pleading etc, and it's taking time to get back on track.
A week and a half ago he has again said he would like to see what happens. ON friday though he again said he was having doubts. Rather than flipping out as I usually would I asked him to explain these doubts, and for the first time he did. they are that he thinks he must have done his for a reason, and worries what if nothing has changed and what if this happens again. Despite feeling like this he would still like to see what happens. I feel it is massive progress that he has told me this, and now feel the situation is more precarious than ever. I dont know how to behave to give us the best chance to get through this part, other than to not focuss on the relationship. can anyone give me advice? i woild really appreciated it.
