As per usual - thanks for all the replies.

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LOYAL to YOU and your KIDS...
DEPENDABLE to YOU and your KIDS...
ALWAYS THERE for your KIDS...


As a by-product of all of this, I am doing the same for my W.

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You may feel you are giving your W her space... it is very likely your W is not feeling it...


I'm pretty sure you are right that my W is not feeling it. But only way to give more space is to move out of bedroom or home - and I won't be doing either.

Back on the rollercoaster - very cold last night and this morning.

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1. Change your hair style out of nowhere, show no concern whether your W likes it or not.


My hair style really only accomodates a "#1" these days grin

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You've been running? Sign up for a race! There's age group categories, and especially with the longer ones it's sometimes just about finishing.


I hadn't thought about signing up for a race - I like that idea.

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Take up an instrument(I personally did this one)
Here's the best one: find something you've been wanting to do for years, quit making excuses and do it.


These would be like knocking two items in one go.

One thing that keeps coming up over and over - She does not love me, and she cannot regain that love. Not sure there is much I can do about that - except keep being the best person I can be.


M47
W45
D10 (Has CP)
D7
M12 T14
ILYBINILWY 5/1/11
Asked for seperation 5/10/11
Seriously DBing 7/1/11
W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11.
Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11
D - Final 7/11/12