Oh ITM, that bites. It's typical behavior though. The only thing you can do at this point is ignore him completely and pretend none of what he does affects you in any way. As long as he feels the power of the pain he is causing you, he holds all the cards and will continue to do it. I sometimes wonder if these people have any clue what being stabbed in the heart feels like. Hmmm......

Be your wonderful self and live your life as if he doesn't exist. The more you can do that, the more it will become reality. Let him live in the mess he has created and after some time he may come to realize it. Trust me......I've lived it!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!