Confronted spouse...now he wont come home

[Abbey]

You and I are in the same boat. Cake and eat it too. At some point, we both have to slam the door shut to wake them up. It's the hardest thing to do. Probably one of the hardest in your life. But it does work.

You realize you're having an affair with your own husband right? And that DOES work, if you know how to shut the door and then he misses you.

Your comment about your H's words: He also doesn't think marriage should be work if the two people are right for each other.

It's so typical with these loons. They'd rather just reach for the low hanging fruit on the affair tree, and eat for the day, than water and nurture a whole tree (the marriage). Walk away men in particular seem to assume that lust and wild sex should just always be there without any nurturing from themselves. They mistake infatuation for love. *growl* Life is work. Marriage is work. Raising kids is work. Loving another person IS WORK.