Okay so the sep. agreement/d agreement has allready been filed. The only thing holding up the finalization of the d is the fact that we havnt been seperated over 60 days. H did that the week he moved out. Used my lawyer. He agreed to everything as long as I didnt drag it out. Even gave me sole custody.dec. 5th the D can be finalized. Its all so fast and H is hell bent on it. It's really hard b/c I dont knw his motives or what hes looking for. I'm sort of lost as to 180's aswell.