BM, it's good that you don't make light of the fact that your H is a good provider. Many of us don't have that luxury. I hope you're squirreling for your future.
When your H is home from work can you make yourself scarce? go do those things that take you away from the house, ease the strain on yourself and don't be around him.
My H and I rarely shop together, and I save a lot of money that way!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
