Seeking, I agree with Beatrice. Please don't send the email. You don't know if the XW is trying to stir the pot and your xh may not have said anything to her. Besides, what business is it of hers?
I know that these types of comments hurt, but do not respond/react to them. Sit quietly and the truth shall be revealed when you least expect it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
