PA - Confirmed - Blinkers are off.

[NYCPeter]

You can still be dependable without being predictable. Do you agree?

I'm not sure I do agree - when you have a child with special needs, you need to be predictable. Are you going to be there for them, when they wake up at 2am when you need to comfort them.

My W knows I will be there for her. Knows I will "half-sleep" in case ny D9 wakes up in the middle of the night.

Spoke to my sister this evening and gave her the "complete picture" - she's right "W - does not deserve you", but you know what, my girls do - So while I am "permitted" to be a full-time dad, I will be there for them and I will be predictable.