Why when you talk with friends about being separated it seems like you have the scarlet letter on your chest? They don't think that you can work this out and they automatically think its over. They tell you to work on you and be happy with your kids when you have them. Fix you first. Yea obviously this is what needs to be done. I question why friends say why are you hoping for this too change, or you don't know if she will ever change you need to move on. My reply is your right, BUT, she is my wife and the mother of my children, I do not really want to have mommys house daddys house. I want to have OUR house and that is it. One family happy and together again. DO I know if this will ever happen. Nope BUT I CAN HOPE AND WISH.
M37 W34 S6 D3 M8yrs T14 S 1year Told me she doesn't want to be married 10/2011 "I will never stop trying because when you find the ONE, you never give up." Steve Carrell Crazy, stupid, Love
