"Like I've said before, I'm not sure if I'll actually date anybody because I'm not sure if I'm all the way there, emotionally- and mentally-speaking. But the idea is still brewing."
WCF - I know you are young and all, but if you are to successfully DB then I think dating should not be in your immediate future. First of all, it would be very easy to get caught up in an A that you may end up regretting if your W comes out of her fog. Also, if you get involved with someone too soon after the break-up the odds are extremely high that that relationship will fail as well.
I think you need to give this a lot more time. I know you are hedging right now but you should really put it out of your mind entirely for the time being.
Just my 2 cents!
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Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife