I think you are exploring and figuring out what you do and don't like. I think you are right on all counts too. And I think it's good to stay away from somebody who thinks like him, at least in a romantic sort of way. He isn't ready. Your radar is picking something up and you are trusting it. That's what is important in this conversation.
Good for you Antonia. I'm happy to hear you are exploring and seeing things that interest you. Talking to people and being friendly. And most of all not settling...in a positive way.
Keep in mind that much of what you know is based on what you..know. Your xh takes much of that right now. Keep exploring. I think if you do that, with a child like mind, you'll find that the people out there can be a lot of fun.
Kind of like a research project. Keep exploring. Keep asking questions. Keep at it!
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
