Those words are eerily close to what I told my W some time ago. While it certainly hasn't resolved our sitch... she has largely stopped running farther away, we can be civil with each other and even enjoy each other at times, and she has told me that she believes I really do understand that she wants out and she appreciates the space. So... for what it's worth it's done its intended purpose. Just suxx that the intended purpose is so not what we want.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD