I actually think that most of them have stuck. I don't yell, I don't get angry, I have been less compulsive about a neat house (although that last one has led to many unhappy and stressful times on my part), I don't nag, I don't ask for something more than once....I've encouraged H in his teaching endeavor and helped him with his classwork (despite my beliefs about alternate route to licensure teachers), I have kept quiet when he talked about teaching being easy (which if you knew me- keeping quiet isn't my strong suite).... I have tried to be upbeat, I have tried to include him in events (even though he still says no).....
