Daily rambling thoughts : )
I believe that she is planning a small welcome home party for me- Is this an olive branch, or do you think that she simply thinks that we can get divorced & then hang out n be best buddies?
*Should I casually invite her to any of my GAL activities ( yoga or snowboarding/skiing for example)…. Or is this just for me.
I’m pretty sure that their isn’t OM… just issues that we ignored until she couldn’t stand it anymore. I truly am embracing the 180/ self improvement. Just praying that she she will eventually notice & change her mind about the D. This is tough- I have been interacting with her (by ph & email only until I get home)… interacting with her like she was a close co-worker or friend, no R talk at all. R topic hasn’t come up since shortly after the D bomb was dropped-
*Do I just go about my everyday business, acting like “house-mates” until she brings up the R or D topic? Someone suggested that I be pro-active and bring up the D subject & ask how soon it could get accomplished, to show her that I’m anxious to move on….. Sounds like bad advice to me. What do the DB Veterans think about that & inviting her to yoga some night?
Thanks Everyone…. Leaving the sandbox soon..can’t wait to get home, it’s been a horrible deployment

(F.K.A. Broken422)

US 40's
M 17,T 19
2 BOYS 13,16
Divorced 4/2012
11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D

"When it is dark enough,you can see the stars"- Ralph Waldo Emerson