RL, I am thinking along the same lines that you are. Although I was happy during a part of the M, there are certain things that I now look back on and recognize that they just were out of scope of normal R.

Abusive? I am thinking on that.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D