RL, I am thinking along the same lines that you are. Although I was happy during a part of the M, there are certain things that I now look back on and recognize that they just were out of scope of normal R.
Abusive? I am thinking on that.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D