Earlier today when I was weeping because I knew if I told my w about my weight loss she wouldn't care I started with my breathing exercises to center myself. Once I was centered and calmer I remembered that the weight loss was for myself, my kids (so I'm a better role model and around longer), and then for her (or whomever comes along someday to take her place).
WHG, love what you said there. I have to remember that myself, when W doesn't ask me one thing about my day or take notice of what I've been doing. No matter how cold W comes off, I got to remember that I am doing this for myself first.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
