Thanks guys. The weight loss is part of a deliberate effort... about a month before the bomb, W and I had a convo where she said the fact that I don't take care of myself really bothered her and that she was afraid I would die on her before I'm 50. When I saw how seriously afraid of that she was I made a vow to really do something about it. So Aug 7 I started really working on it.

It's just nice to see the results. You can always wonder whether the scales are really telling you the truth smile but clothing sizes at least give that some confirmation smile


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD