I know, Beatrice. And I welcome them 2x4's. It wakes me up to what I do have, and what I have, I do appreciate. Believe me. We struggled a lot, financially, in our first 15 years, or so, of M. I had to work too. Now that we are more stable, we have other issues, but we can buy our kids more expensive presents, help out with money with those who have left home, pay for education, etc. It is a blessing.

And, I laugh at myself a LOT. You can't go through a life changing situation such as H's MLC/A, and cancer without realizing the weirdness of life.

I do welcome your advice. smile


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim