Ok. I screwed up. Here is my story. Had H over for Thanksgiving Dinner. It went great. He was very flirty with me and we even made plans for me to come to his apartment for sex the next morning. And I did. Well in the middle of us having sex and I notice some hair clips on the window ledge in front of his bed. After we had sex, I asked who the hair clips belong to and don't tell me our D. He admitted that he was having sex with a coworker. It's been going on for about a month. But at first he looked me straight in my eyes and said it was a one stand. HE LIED!!!! After confessing to the his relationship with her. I asked if he was attracted to her and no but he said they were friends with benefits only. I asked when was the last time he had sex with her and he said a few days ago. I asked if you wore a condom and he said yes. I reminded him of the promise he made to me on the beach about he would not have sex with anyone as long as we were married. and he broke that promise. I don't think I can ever trust him again. I asked if he was going to continue having sex with her and he said he wasn't going to quit. He told me that he was divorced in his heart and I reminded him that we were still married and he cheated and lied to me. He said only in my world.
