Lostforwords - I love that you brought up the Covey constants. I remember early on in my marriage reading one of his books. In the book, Covey shares that he was counseling a man who said he didn't love his wife anymore. Covey said - "well love her." Man continues - "no, you don't understand - I don't LOVE her anymore." Covey maintains "well - love her." The story continues with Covey's reflection that the ACTION of love is what drives the FEELING of love. You have to make a choice - a decision - a commitment to love.

This was a strong influence on my belief system. - FWIW


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
A Day at a Time