I posted to your thread a couple of months back and just got updated on your sitch. I am sorry that your H filed, specially during this season.
Yet, I wanted to tell you that in reading your posts I can see the tremendous amount of growth you have done in the past few months. I am soo impressed - I sincerely congratulate you. You now know you will be ok, regardless of what happens with your H. That doesn't mean you won't have ups and downs and will continue hurting, but you have found yourself again.
Even though we have roughly the same timelines in our journey, I am no way near as far along as you. I am still very much struggling with being consistent with my changes and still have a hard time controlling my anger. But I am not giving up. Seeing how far along you are gives me hope and a source of inspiration of how much I can accomplish.
I agree 100% with you - 2012 has got to be better year.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D