I have a H who travels too, and I wonder what he is doing when he's away (this has been going on for a loooong time). So, I know how you feel. Just wanted to empathise ... don't have better advice than what you're getting.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim