I think I do... I sure try. She just left for another night out. She'll be home 4 or 5 probably. No attitude from me, no comments, just told her to have fun. And I really don't care at this point. She can do what she wants to do.

It is hard at times to see what she is missing, but that's her choice. S had my mom call me this morning because he was missing me, not us, not my w, me. W spent the day hanging out with friends at their new sub shop they opened, drinking beers while S and I had a family day, took in a holiday parade, and went to the opening of the huge holiday light display that we had been volunteers in putting together.

But not a word from me to her about it. Go live your life W, I'm going to live mine.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD