I'm glad you decided to share your story with us. Since you've been reading for a few months, you can see for yourself what a great support system we have here.
It does sound like your H is having a MLC and unfortunately all you can do is stand back and allow him to go through it. Make sure you establish some boundaries for yourself.
The fact that you are in C for yourself and are doing things for YOU (running) is a very good thing.
Just keep posting, others will pop in and share their support as well.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤
