I will also add, that since H and I have been together for so long and we share all the same friends and our families have become one, not one of those people have said I have done the wrong thing. They have all known me/us from the beginning and know most of our story, seen the transformation. Even his best friend, brother and parents support me 100%. I'm not saying I'm faultess, but if I was really the bad person having a MLC too, I'm sure someone in my real life would call me on it.
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12