Thanks everyone.

OM has gone for the younger model.
W has not committed to M - I have made it clear I am willing to start fresh - she says she doesn't know whether she trusts the changes (which I call BS to, as she wasn't interested in the changes while the OM was around).

Went to the in-laws for dinner last night, W and girls stayed there to hang around with family - I came home. Pleasant, detached and I "acted" as if everything was normal.

Round of golf today - I've been invited to stay over at a friend's place overnight - now that would set her mind thinking (I never do that) - could be a 180 and have her wondering where I was.


M47
W45
D10 (Has CP)
D7
M12 T14
ILYBINILWY 5/1/11
Asked for seperation 5/10/11
Seriously DBing 7/1/11
W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11.
Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11
D - Final 7/11/12