I've been reading your sitch. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Seems to me that you are doing all the right things and your head is on straight. Well....as straight as it can be, I know. I know how crazy-making this all is. You have a good friend in Abbey here. No 2 X 4 and allowed to vent your feelings. We all need that so that we don't break dishes!
I agree with Abbey, they ARE abducted by aliens!
MZ
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.