The lies, deception and just general crazy-making that your H does... DOES make you detach. It's a safety mechanism. Uhm, it'll come and go for you. One minute, you feel like you'd rather just walk away, the next, you feel clingy.

Their crazy head (and what's inside it) isn't something you want to know, I don't think. Mine said things to me yesterday during a pretty wild fight, that shows he's lost certain grips of reality. Affair people DO.

They view themselves as victims, they hone their narcissistic traits down to a fine shiny point. They justify their actions as necessary. (Esp the lies and hiding the truth etc.)

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.