Finally confronted H on affair...Now what????

[workinghardguy]

Ugh. Everyday there is a reminder of how she is replacing me - in EVERY aspect of his life.

Yes, but she can't replace you in any aspect of YOUR life. You are still living your life as your H's wife. You are not that right now. Maybe someday you will be again, but right now you are not.

The OW only has power to hurt you as long you let her. She got a man who walked away from three children because life got rough. Hey... great catch! Good luck with that!

You want your H back... but he's not really home right now. Maybe later he will be, but right now he's WAH-guy who is very different than your H.

Go make your own life. Show him you a) don't need him and b) don't really care. Remember that the opposite of love is NOT hate... it is apathy. Hate means you care enough to be angry. Apathy means you don't care enough to care.