Yes, OM is gone. Despite NYCPeter's many difficult months of treading water he's just coming up to the starting line of where DB can actually make forward progress IF he sticks to the program. W is reeling, hurting, on the fence. The "in love" chemicals have worn off and she's emerging from her haze and looking at the scorched earth all around her.

Now is when she starts to think about what she's doing. The rollercoaster is going to kick into high gear. She will run hot and cold.

Now is the time to detach and be your own man! Read the book again if you can. Start again on the 180's and act as if.

Good luck, I'm pulling for you.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015