What else could I have done?

[ClingingToHope]

How do you know she still hurts? I kept thinking our split was hard on her, but then I found out several times in several ways that it wasn't.

I still haven't totally let go and I may never totally let go. You know really only time helps. I severely burned my foot when I was five. I used to show off the scars to people growing up. I looked last year and I couldn't remember which foot it was and I couldn't tell by looking. The scars have faded away. I think that's how it is with divorce.