I got a " happy thanksgiving" text this afternoon from him...went back and forth for 20 min. on if i should respond or not and finally just responded happy thanksgiving.
Tomorrow we have to clean out our house as short sale went threw and it has to be empty by 30th...im dreading it. I raised my kids in that home but catching him in our bed with OW has made it feel ugly. It will be our last time there and i dont want to get emotional.....
S14 wants to bring H a plate from thanksgiving dinner...dont want to as i made a commitment to myself this morning to go dark and really detach until after new years...but dont know what to tell S14..... Not a huge deal but should i????
I feel he made a choice, let him live it..and that doesnt include my awesome cooking...:)

Me:48 H:42
M: 18 yrs.
S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H
D bomb: 9/9/11
OW confirmed 10/30/11
D papers filed 11/01/11
S15 S21(Special needs) S28

Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...