Husband Left...Part 2

[workinghardguy]

I would say cake eating myself... I guess it depends on your H's sex drive, but if he's a typical guy this isn't baby steps it's about getting his needs met. Sex should be the last thing to come back on line, IMO. But then again what do I know?

BUT, you have something he wants obviously... i.e. sex. So maybe you can use that. Develop a plan to get where you want things to be and sex is somehwere in there.

Think of it this way... if you do go over and have sex what will it mean to you? Will you get more attached? If he pulls back and retracts from you will you hurt more? If so, then I wouldn't go there. Just my two cents.