Wife wants a divorce,but I do not.

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I decided not to go to Thanksgiving at her sisters house today,my wife has this belief that we can get divorced and still be great friends and do family stuff together and our kids will be just fine and I do not agree with that at all so I didn't feel like going over there and acting like one big happy family.

I want her to realize that this TV fantasy that she has about divorce is a bunch of crap and I want some reality of what she is doing to our family to hit home.