I had asked him Saturday when a good time to put my rings back on would be, and he said, "Baby steps love...baby steps." We aren't married, it's my engagement ring, but we've lived together 14 years, so we call each other H and W.
What do you guys think??
TOUGH LOVE here, why would live 14 yrs with a daughter without getting married. Dispite the hype, living together is not right. If he was commited to the relationship, you would be married. And his baby steps is BS. Now, he did go to OW for a reason. So you need to fix that. Google, LOVE LANGUAGES, MARS/VENUS ON A DATE. And have him listen to the audiobook, WHAT WOMAN WANT MEN TO KNOW, In fact listen together. Get some SBT couseling, if you can't fix yourself.
