Make her a homemade CARD with coupons for things like. Bathing kid, load of laudry, load of dishes, grocery shopping. Put a least a 10 in there, no repeats.
Keep the CARD simple, don't pour your heart out on it. Just simple. You can however make it ornate. NO glue on stuff, just nice homemade pictures.
Don't even think about xmas, for a few weeks. See how things go. Also get son to make card too.
Plan on making her supper, with a homemade cake.
Have camera handy, but don't use it unless she asks for pics taken. Ie leave camera on counter.
