I think both your couselors should talk.
Don't move out, Aliens tell you to go, but don't mean it.
See PARENT TRAP.

Find out her LOVE LANGUAGES.

Woman consider nite time routine theirs, don't intrude.

As you get well, you can do mom things with kid.
Best and easist is to baby sit while she goes shopping.
Little steps.
Maintain a journal.

Poe Has Got Off The Runaway Train