JB, Sorry this happened so close to the holiday. Talk about awful timing.
I agree alot with what WHG says. I'm sure you weren't prepared for the text (which btw - what a crappy way to communicate it to you)
You have been very kind to your w in regards to this all and I don't want to say you need to stop... but if she is going to continue on this path (which she is completely entitled to) you need to continue to lay boundaries like you did in regards to the pick up.
I'm sure it's typical for a w to do what yours did.. make the conversation about your marriage.. but it's not... it's about your son and what is emotionally best for him.
If she can't get that.. it's her problem. You will continue to do what's best for him.
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Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
