Wife just told me doesn't want to be married

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Your comments make sense regarding my ring.

[My antenna went up the first time I read that she & the kids spends weekend with parent. The kids probably stay, but she may find excuses to leave the kids there while she has private time.]
This was the first time she did this. When she has the kids she has them. The kids were at my in laws cause my son had a half day and my MIL picked him up. Plus my FIL asked my W to pick up the turkey from the store and drop it off. She left cause she didn't want to be around her GF and she feels guilty.

I have spoken with my in laws about who she is hanging around with. They know how much these guys drink. It is not my place to tell them about affair. MY FIL wants to have a talk with her but she ignores his phone calls. I have a feeling it might happen this weekend. My MIL got a chance to meet these guys and she was not to thrilled with them, of course they also toned the drinking down when around her. Part of me has a feeling my MIL knows something is going on. She can still tell my W is not happy.

My W is at her parents house all day with her Grand Parents who are upset for us. Kids are with me with my family.

Its good to have them here but very upsetting at the same time. Of course beauty and the beast was on this morning and my kids watched that. All I could think of was taking my W to NY to go see the show years ago. Got upset.