DBing against OW...?????

[imthemom]

That is exactly why i avoid the subject..really, Im acting as if my catching him never happened, and he is more then happy to go along with that.
Last night was difficult as it was the first time it was "in my face" since he was caught.
He took S14 out to eat and when he picked him up he came in and chatted for a bit, I was home alone and while they were gone S14 started texting me funny little text over and over and then finally called me and they were both laughing and S14 said "Dad told me to"..it was sweet, and first exchange we have had like that in so long..
There had been a sitch with S14 this week that H was supose to speak to him about so after he dropped him off I text him to see how it went and he replied Ill call you when i get to the house, which is 10 min. away.....well an hour later no call and when I called H did not answer. I figured he had went to OW house right after and got pretty upset. after another 30 min. H calls me and says still not home ill call you in 20 min. i said ok and after 20 min. and no call went to bed.
when I woke up this morning theres a text sorry i didnt call, ill call you in the morning....
I know this is wasted energy even caring that he is with OW...He is an alcoholic who is basically acting the age he was when he started drinking, hes a hormonal teenager right now who has the priority list as such. But the thought of him running off to get la*# (sensoring) after dropping of his son makes me sick. and he usually wont have any contact with me when he is spending time with her (wont call, wont answer text from S14 or myself and is basically hard to get hold of) so the texting and calling was strange and not how he usually handles the sitch...
well, today is a new day and my plan is to not answer when he does call today...i want to have a good day and not dwell on the sitch so talking to him today is counter productive to that...he has not plans for the day and maybe it will be good for him to sit in the house alone and not have any contact from me.
off to start my turkey broth...
Happy Thanksgiving everyone..