Yeah, if I was a doctor I'd put "health care", just as I do. Again, being a social worker can lead people with problems to think that here's someone who'll take care of me. As far as income, I agree, that's nobody's business really, I'm ok with people leaving that out. It's awkward through an initial contact to ask "how long have you been separated" or "what do you do for a living" or "how old are your kids" or "why is your screen name Bitter" lol The easier you make it for someone to guage who you are, as impossible as that may be on an online dating site, the more likely people will contact you. There's enough uncertainty in contacting someone you don't know without having to wonder "why is this person not mentioning..." Hey, maybe that's just me and my anxiety about doing something I've never done before and never dreamed I would be doing...I dunno Btw, the divorce papers have been filed with the court and next Voldy will be served the papers. Did I mention I really hate this? I'm doing the best I can, trying to be decent...it just [censored]. I wanted to deliver the papers myself but that's not OK, understandably. Anyway, that's my update. Happy Thanksgiving my American friends! Divine Love blesses and multiplies all that we have, all that we give and all that we recieve! Have a great one...and 3 football games on a Thursday, what's not to be thankful for! lol.