This is a hard one. My W's birthday is on 12/29 and my D14 12/23. Always broke this time of year. By this time of year I would have asked my W to print me pictures of stuff she wanted fom Macys or the horse store. The ladys at Macys thought that was cute So I think this year I will ask D14 what she would like to get her mommy. I don't konw if that is the right thing to do. W has not asked what I want so Santa ain't bringinning me anything this year. hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
So I think this year I will ask D14 what she would like to get her mommy. I don't konw if that is the right thing to do. W has not asked what I want so Santa ain't bringinning me anything this year. 
hang in there