Sorry to hear about all that, J. Definitely infuriating. However, I think you realize at this point that trying to argue with the WAS' point-of-view will get you nowhere. They have their mind made up as to how they're going to act and feel, and the more you attack that view, the more firmly they'll dig their heels in. Frustrating, yes, but it's also human nature to defend when attacked (even if you were doing so with good intentions in regards to your S).
Thanks, WCF. Oh yeah, I know I'm going nowhere fast trying to argue with my W's point of view. I think I did accomplish what I set out to accomplish, and that was to enforce a boundary. I need to stand up for my S, though. I will do anything possible to protect him.
I think my S is seeing the difference of right and wrong. I just wish he wasn't seeing it with his parents.
