Doesn't everyone from time to time? I think friends would accept that. When people go out drinking, being intoxicated is a probably and common outcome.
If it happens all the time, you might express concern for her health and safety.
I would be careful not to make what others think about her drinking you problem.
Perhaps you are easily flustered or put out of sorts and maybe need to relax a bit.
It makes sense to give folks latitiude if one is out at a pub drinking. It doesn't happen that often that she gets intoxicated in public. I do need to not worry about what people think of her. People are going to like or dislike her or me or us for reasons beyond my control. People do like her. I'm the one who is perceived as stiff and needs to relax
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CL
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