So now that I know there's something going I'm really in a quandary.
On one hand things seemed to be progressing. We've made plans to attend several parties together tomorrow and Friday.
But today I get my previous suspicions confirmed and all of a sudden parties don't sound so good. Again I have no idea what I want. Do I want to still try to save the marriage? I don't know.
I know many on these boards have gone through so much more. With their spouses blatantly cheating. I can't imagine and don't want to.
I don't know how long any of this has been going on. 7 years? a few months?
I don't know if we were actually on a path to reconciliation and she was hanging on to the OM (Those two letters were hard to type)
I don't know if I want to be married to a woman I no longer trust.
and more urgently I don't know if I should go tomorrow or not.
Not easy for someone who usually knows, well, just about everything.
